Remember the Three Ps of Horse Training when Approaching your Horse

When you wish to train a horse you’ll have to catch it first. This sounds simple enough, but if this is your first attempt at doing so it can be surprisingly frustrating. This is actually the most important step of all in training. The trust foundation is laid in this step. Remember the importance of patience, persistence and positive reinforcement - the three P’s of horse training - during each and every stage of training your horse. These three training elements work together and are relevant with each step of training along the way.

The most efficient way to begin the approach is to have the horse in an enclosure of easily manageable size. A round pen is the best type of enclosure to use, but you can use any large fenced area or paddock if you don’t have one.

A casual demeanour when first approaching the enclosure is necessary. Do your very best to relax and give the impression of calm. Leave your life’s stress outside the pen. Prey animals such as horses are easily intimidated by any form of stress or aggression they may sense. This represents a possible threat and the last thing you want is for your horse to see you as a threat. Trust must be built between the two of you.

Enter the enclosure, but not to catch the horse yet. That will come in good time. Your aim for now is to familiarize yourself with the horse and more importantly, for the horse to become familiar with you. Just walk in and stand around for a few moments. Do not look directly at the horse. Predators eyeball their prey and stare into their eyes to intimidate them. You are not a predator and your horse should not see you as such. You need to be seen as part of the herd.

Next time, take a rake in and tidy up a bit. Check the fence panels and see if they need mending. Do anything but approach the horse at this point. The horse will approach you eventually and will want to see what you are doing. They are very curious creatures by nature. You’ll be checked out thoroughly and sniffed once you are a regular visitor.

Please keep in mind that this step can take more time if the horse is unfamiliar with human contact. For some horses shyness is not a problem, and they will approach you the minute you enter the enclosure. Either way is acceptable. The horse will begin to trust you only if you let him become accustomed to you slowly and in his own time. Patience!

Don’t reach for the horse as yet, though you may see this as a good opportunity to grab him. The most important thing to remember here is patience. This takes time and you are building a foundation that will last throughout training and well beyond. This step should not be rushed.

When the horse at last approaches you, turn your back and walk away. Be sure you are the first one to do so. By walking away first, you will indicate that he is not in charge of you.

When you and the horse are familiar with each other and comfortable in each others presence, you can approach him, but not straight on. Walk slowly and remember to use your very loose and relaxed posture. Stepping sideways can be a good approach for a skittish equine. Go toward the side and don’t stare. Looking sideways, move towards the horse. Whatever you do, don’t sneak up on the horse and try to surprise it with the halter. What will you do to hang on to the horse once you “catch” it if it’s frightened? Your mutual trust will be breached and you’ll have to start all over again. And of course you could be hurt. Patience and persistence.

When the horse allows you to come close, it’s time for positive reinforcement. The first moments you spend together should have nothing to do with work. This step is about bonding. Simple grooming, brushing, scratching behind the ears, conversation, stroking along the neck area are positive reinforcement tools. The horse should see this as enjoyable interaction. The two of you will now be ready for training.

A note about safety:
Never approach a horse from behind unless you are very familiar and the horse knows you. A horse can register a swift kick before you can even think about getting out of the way. They are always faster than you are, especially if they feel threatened or surprised. Always approach where you can be seen.

Whether it is your own horse, or you are training the horse on somebody else’s behalf, it is always advisable to ensure that there is adequate equine insurance in place to protect you both should an accident occur during training. Horses may be mostly gentle creatures, but they are nevertheless very powerful ones; if a horse kicks you, you could be very seriously injured. A good horse insurance policy will include third party liability, and it is definitely worth checking this before you begin with your training.